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    Big Man Rejection (is this just me?)

    Tuesday, October 14, 2008, 05:21 AM GMT [General]

    I love men, big,tall, thick,  (pick a color) , I love men.....  

    Like most men, you have a type...

    My type isn't carved in stone,  I'm drawn to the big and tall or thick and tall.  However, smart funny, a man of intergity often trumps what I'm drawn to.

    A bear events, the big/ tall men don't seem to be interested.      From San Francisco  to New York,  it seems that I am wearing a bag of cypotiniet around my neck. 

    Am I alone?

     

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    you are not alone.

    LessIsNess
    October 15, 2008
    11:46 PM GMT

    We often know the answer to this question. It takes us back to being in high school when the prettiest, most muscular, the coolest or the most handsome were asked to dance. It is sometimes a popularity contest and if you are an "outsider", you may be left out. I tend to avoid bear bars and events. Not for this particular reason. The events/bars just do not feel inclusive to me.

    afroblue
    October 16, 2008
    05:03 AM GMT

    No sir, you are not alone. I am right here with you and so are so many others. I have given up to some extent on dating and so forth.

    Jovian
    October 31, 2008
    12:49 AM GMT